Better In Time

This is the song which I’m damn in love with recently.
It takes over the place of “Bleeding Love” which I liked very much previously.
Maybe it’s the situation that makes me change my preference.
It’s the lyrics maybe…
Previously it’s “Bleeding Love”, now it’s “Better In Time”.
Lol, which means that after you had finished bleeding your love, you will have to get better in time.
Hopefully it won't be "Bitter In Time".
Hahaha, fuck love life.

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Leona Lewis

Better In Time

It’s been the longest winter without you
I didn’t know where to turn to
See somehow I can’t forget you
After all that we've been through

Go in, come in
Thought I heard a knock
Who’s there? No one
Thinking that I deserved it
Now I realize that I really didn’t know
You didn’t notice, you mean everything
Quickly I’m learning, to love again
All I know is, Imma be ok

Thought I couldn’t live without you
Its gonna hurt when it heals to
It’ll all get better in time
Even though I really love you
I’m gonna smile cause I deserve to
It’ll all get better in time

How could I turn on the tv
Without something there to remind me
Was it all that easy
To just put aside your feelings

If I’m dreaming
Don’t wanna let, hurt my feelings 

But that’s the path, I believe in
And I know that, time will heal it
You didn’t notice, you mean everything
Quickly I’m learning, to love again
All I know is, Imma be ok

Thought I couldn’t live without you
Its gonna hurt when it heals to
It’ll all get better in time
Even though I really love you
I’m gonna smile cause Ideserve to
It’ll all get better in time

Since there’s no more you and me
Its time I let you go so I can be free
And live my life how it should be
No matter how hard it is I'll be fine without you
Yes I will

Thought I couldn’t live without you
Its gonna hurt when it heals to
It’ll all get better in time
Even though I really love you
I’m gonna smile cause I deserve to
It’ll all get better in time

(chorus till fade)

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Actually I wanna upload the song together in this post but I don’t know the way to.
Lol, still a noob ass in blogging.

Nice guys

Found this article somewhere in the internet,
which I feel is great to share with those good guys out there, as well as those ungrateful girls.

Of course, first of all I have to claim that this article is originally copied from the internet and not written by me.

We often heard those girls out there keep asking: where are all the nice guys?
Well, this article answers that question.

Here it goes:

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What happened to all the nice guys?
The answer is simple: you did.

See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were fucking treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends." Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you weren’t dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship.

So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, "What happened to all the nice guys?"

Well, once again, you did.

You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive "just-a-" friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be.

Fact is, now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of "nice guys" in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that.

So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do:

1.) Build a time machine.
2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.
3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab a hold of it.

I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

If you were five years younger.

So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've fucked yourself over. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't fucking want you, now.

Sincerely,

A Recovering Nice Guy

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The end of the article.

Courage and Strength

It takes strength to be firm.
It takes courage to be gentle.

It takes strength to stand guard.
It takes courage to let down your guard.

It takes strength to conquer
It takes courage to surrender.

It takes strength to be certain.
It takes courage to have doubt.

It takes strength to fit in.
It takes courage to stand out.

It takes strength to feel somebody's pain.
It takes courage to feel your own pain.

It takes strength to hide feelings.
It takes courage to show them.

It takes strength to stand alone.
It takes courage to lean on another.

It takes strength to love.
It takes courage to be loved.

It takes strength to survive.
It takes courage to live.

It takes strength to hold on.
It takes courage to let go.

-Plagiarized-

Night talk

Watched back those photos that we took during our last year’s Singapore trip.
It was really soooo memorable!
Those are the happy moments where we have nothing to worry about (except for no enough time for us to play throughout the entire island).
Wow, standing in the current situation of mine, while looking back at those photos..
Really really can’t imagine that those happy moments do exist before.
Those days were really….enjoying + loving..!
Just the 2 of us went down to the island by coach, and of course with few hundred sing dollars and the most important thing on hand  the island’s MRT route map.
Haha, with that map, we went throughout the entire island..
It’s just like a backpacking journey..tiring yet memorable.
Yeah, just the 2 of us.
With loads of photos taken of course..
After walking for the whole day, night time still wanna walk to the opposite street to buy loads of mangosteens + rambutans back into the hotel for fruit fest.
Lolx, wtf is happening to me.
Thinking of those happy memories in the middle of the night.
Well, those are memories.
It is better to look forward and create more memories.
Damn..it’s 4am dy..
Gotta sleep dy..
Tmr 9am class wtf!!!
Goodnight.